Over
the course of five months, I've fully stepped out of my life, my groove, and my
comfort zone. This total uprooting has been eye opening, scary, fun and
exciting all at the same time. There were times were I thought my life couldn't
get any better, and other times where I thought I would never see the sun shine
again. Don't be confused, I'm not manic depressive, I'm just living life
outside the United States were everything is different and confusing at times.
This was my first extended stay away from home and my first time being
separated from everyone I have known throughout the past 20 years.



It
was then that I realized that communication is more than words. Showing someone
can be more powerful that telling. Two women from completely different
backgrounds, who do not speak each other's language we able to communicate and
bond with little to no words (of course things like food make this especially
easy to bond over).
Regardless,
there were no stereotypes or prejudgments passed, which is another thing I’ve
tried to overcome. I don’t think I have, but I’ve certainly gained more
perspective. I can safely say it’s universal to have stereotypes on the
cultures that are not are own, but it’s always enlightening when a stereotype
is broken. During my studies at USAC, I’ve not only met locals and people of
Spain, but other Americans in my program as well who are from all over the
country. Certain stereotypes I’ve had on the different regions of the States
have even been broken during my time in Europe, who would have thought!
Another
interesting interaction I’ve had was interviewing my Spanish professor Rosana
about her intercultural experiences during her time in the United States. When
we talked about the differences we saw, we gawked at each others impressions
of our countries. For example, during her graduate TA training the trainees
were warned against getting to close to students both physically and
emotionally, where in Spain that’s not ever addressed as an issue. When I
started teaching at the secondary school in Bilbao, no one at the school or
during my training ever talked about appropriate distance between teachers and
students.


Breaking
these stereotypes is hard to do, and can often only be done with personal
experience and exposure to a certain culture or group of people. I’m fortunate
for my time in Spain and how these past months have opened my eyes to a new
world of communicating with people. Although we can’t live without
communication whether it’s verbal or nonverbal, it’s possible to leave
generalizations and prejudgments at the door and let your interactions shape
how you feel.